Many articles on VnExpress discuss working abroad, but it’s difficult to determine whether this path suits everyone, as it remains a highly personal choice based on individual situations.
While living in Vietnam, even though I had graduated from a renowned university and was employed in the medical sector, I soon understood that diligence and credentials do not necessarily guarantee economic stability or esteem.
I came from a humble background without many advantages. Though hardworking and academically capable, I was quiet, gentle, and did not have the connections or assertiveness to advance quickly. My income covered only basic living expenses. After years of working, I still lived in a rented room and rode an old motorbike. At work, I constantly worried about pleasing my bosses, nurses, and patients to avoid conflicts.
In my household, I was considered merely another source of income with limited influence or regard, largely because of prevailing social expectations that constrained women’s positions. The tradition of passing down property primarily benefited male relatives, which left me scant prospects for achieving economic security. Given my low earnings, I frequently purchased goods from local bazaars, dressed in used clothing, and my kids went to state-run schools lacking additional enrichment programs.
I earned just enough to meet my everyday costs, with nothing left over for saving or investing. The thought of taking out a significant mortgage to purchase a home always scared me because I worried about losing my job and not being able to make payments.
Disheartened by these constraints and uncertain about what lay ahead, I thought about pursuing opportunities by working overseas.
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A street corner in Paris, France. Photo by Unsplash/Zhu Yunxiao |
When I relocated to Europe for studies, I ultimately decided to stay indefinitely. Upon arriving in this new nation, I secured employment within my area of expertise, receiving a net monthly paycheck exceeding €3,000 (approximately US$3,360). Alongside my spouse’s earnings, our household income fluctuated between €6,000 and €8,000 each month. With these funds, we managed to lease a cozy residence and set aside roughly €2,000 to €3,000 every month. After several years, through taking out a loan covering 90% from a financial institution offering favorable interest terms, we succeeded in purchasing a property.
Similar to many others around here, I own a used car, do grocery shopping at local supermarkets, and my kids go to public schools. Our family also likes to take several international trips each year. Switching careers doesn’t seem as intimidating anymore since having more experience generally simplifies job hunting; thus, I’m not worried about unemployment during my mid-years.
I have acquaintances around me who work regular jobs yet can afford houses and vehicles. This typical lifestyle provides assurance that I don’t stress over my kids' academic achievements or future opportunities for advanced education. Instead, I motivate them to follow their passions and thrive in areas where they naturally excel.
I realize that individuals relocating to America or other English-speaking nations may encounter stiffer competition and elevated healthcare expenses. Daily life in these areas can occasionally seem more challenging. However, at present, I am quite content with my situation here.
Certainly, adapting to an alien community presents obstacles, even for individuals skilled in both English and the native tongue. Completely embracing the local customs continues to be challenging; however, this doesn’t pose significant worry. Having close friendships and understanding coworkers ensures adequate social interaction.
If you're thinking of trying your luck abroad like me, be mentally prepared for initial challenges. With determination and knowledge, opportunities are always there, waiting to be grasped.
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